Hi there Amanda, sometimes it's the little things that help you to integrate successfully, for example, you'll find the weather here can be pretty windy and wet for much of the year so book a regular appointment with a local hairdresser for a wash and blow-dry or whatever treatment interests you. Not only will this make you feel better but you'll also catch up on local news, opinions and meet other ladies. The islanders can be quite reserved, (though always friendly and polite) and it helps to show that you are interested in involving yourself while not attempting to take over, - a common problem with 'in-comers' who sometimes think they can re-invent the wheel! The locals are adept at finding ways to beat the weather and other local difficulties so listen and learn. The local shops always have notices up of interesting events, and it's also worth subscribing to the (monthly) local paper 'Am Paipear' which, if you are a writer, you could also post articles to. How about offering them a monthly update on 'Moving to Uist'? If musically inclined, you'll be happily accepted at the 'Accordian and Fiddle club' events, and the local college in Liniclate often runs classes for all manner of traditional music taste. I'm not affiliated to a local church group, but if you're religious it can be a very easy way to get to know similar minded people. The local clergy are very welcoming, but even if you don't belong to a particular church you are still welcome to attend their many events as a guest, e.g. whist drives, bingo, ceilidhs, dance classes and lots of other stuff. feel free to go along to any Sunday services just to get a 'feel' for the way of life practised by so many here. One more thing, there really is a world of difference between mainland ways and island ways, and many incomers just don't seem to understand this. Make a bit of effort to get to know the locals, and avoid joining a clique of 'newbies'. By the way; locals don't phone to make an appointment before visiting, - they just 'drop by'. Expect this, and be ready to always offer a cup of tea, and do the same yourself. Don't be afraid to just 'call in on passing', you'll always be made welcome. You'll be asked a thousand questions (in the nicest possible way!) so just be honest and enjoy the 'crack'. Give as good as you get. Failte gu Uibhist! |